Over the weekend, I was asked a question by a friend of mine. The question was, if you had to make one wish, what it would be? To be honest, I surprised my self with the answer I gave. I answered my friend that I would like to wish to do the right thing only 90% of the time. My friend, responded as well with a surprised face and asked, only 90% of the times, why?I said that many times we want to do the right thing and unfortunately we don't. So, when it comes to the times when we do wrong decision we/I can't figure away to fix it as a result of not knowing what to do at those situations.
In relationships, many times we hurt those people who are so close to us, and we end up watching them hurt and not take a step to correct the situation. So, my wish to every one in a relationship is to learn from that 10% that when we do wrong things to the people who love us is to figure out away to repair what was damaged.
In many situations we avoid wrong doing and hurting people. However, the important thing that you need to pay attention to is that every time you do wrong thing it is an opportunity for you and me to realize what hurt your partner and find solutions to that hurt.Don't stand still watching on the sideline, but take steps toward a positive action. Don't hesitate, but be a risk taker in solving the problem. Don't wait to be told what to do, take the initiative to fix what is wrong. Be part of the healing process to your partner.
Remember that your partner is more important than the risk that you may take in order to resolve the matter. Remember it is an expression of love when you take the first steps toward uniting what is had been broken. However, you must be patient with your partner.
2 comments:
you are right - too many times we sit on the sidelines rather than being proactive. It's so important to solve problems right away.
Excellent Post! Oh, I'm learning so much from all of your wonderful bloggers. Thank you so much!
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