Okay, lets consider all of us informed. We all know that we are getting married to be one with our mate and to live happily ever after. We all know that we should love our spouse without any conditions. Sounds good just like the movies.Yet, many of us are not transformed. Transformation is actually means, walking to talk.
Here is a few reasons stopping us from being transformed:
- Where there is Pride, there is no oneness. I would not say sorry.
- Simply fear. We are scared of being the nice person in the relationship, so my spouse will walk all over me.
- I am Right, He/She is Wrong, why should I?
- I am not happy... focusing on your expectation of marriage
- You just waiting for him or her to make the first move
Here are few steps toward transformation:
- Work on the relationship as you are the only one in it. Love as much as you would like to be loved.
- Make the first move always
- Remember you be happier when you mike him or her happier
- Always fight with goal to solve the problem, and don't fight to only win
- Truly love one another without any condition
- Thank God for having her, and thank God for having him, learn to appreciate one another
- Learn from your mistakes
- Be patient, transformation takes time and need consistency
So, take the first step today to transform yourself, because no one can transform you unless you want to.
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