Couples: What is your time of death?

Did I get your attention yet? See my death time is June 7th 2008 4:25 pm. Since then and my death is a process that just started but yet to continue.

In the the Firproof movie, Caleb didn't know that he is wrong. he was looking only to her mistakes.
the love dare is teaching us to lose ourselves in order to win what is important.
Jesus did the same, he sacrificed himself to win us. We are important to him.

In my post Do hard thing... understand it is worth it to let go of those hard things in order to win what is more important than those hard things.
The movie of Fireproof says, "you don't value something until you invest in it."

Caleb confessed that he loved other things, where he should been loving his wife.
Now let me ask you, do you love yourself more than your partner? And more than your marriage?
if you want tomato, you need to plant tomato seeds, so you need to break yourself to win it.
We learn from our society, to win, how about saying sorry. isn't sorry is a form of dying, self dying.
some time we fight trying to prove that the other person is wrong, instead of trying to resolve the matter.
Did you check your motives during or before your last fight with your partner. What was the purpose of your fight? Was it simply trying to prove him or her wrong.

See God's well for us is to die and seek his well. God well for us is to not ask what it is for ourselves.
When we get married, we tend to think that our partner is there to make us happy and that is marriage. But, how many times, we forget that we are their to make our partners happy as well.

See, if you died lately, it would be easy for you to make that special person in your life happy.
Remember, he or she isn't spacial because of who he or she is, it is because of what you think of him or her. Realize that your marriage is selfless covenant and is the date to celebrate the death of you and your partner in order to make ONE out of the TWO of you. Have a Humble Pie today.