Couples: Football & Fashion, Can they meet?

Did you know that most of us stop discovering their spouse right after the wedding day?

See, once we find someone we like and we start dating and engagement period, we keep on trying to know as much as possible about them. The reason behind it is that we want to make sure that person really is a good match with us.

Once we get married, the exploring and searching stop,,, we know he or she is a match,, so we stop....!! Can this make any sense?

You and I need to realize that knowing one another does not stop at the alter, it starts there. The journey start there. You need to know that you only discovered a skin thin area of your spouse and there a lot more to know.

You hear so much about communication and how it is important to marriage...So, how will you communicate to someone you don't even know?

What are you going to do when there is no more words to say or things to talk about?

Do you see it as an investment...? Did you put the effort...? You and your spouse are two different worlds that must meet, football and fashion must meet..

Here is an example?
Ladies, did you ever think of learning a little more about football as a way to communicate to your husband and live in his world?

Men, did you ever think learning more about fashion and decor is a way to communicate with her....?

What are you going to do when the outer beauty fails after 10 years of marriage, and there is nothing that interest either one of you in each other?
What are you going to be talking about when you turn 50"s
Especially since outside beauty is only temporary.

A girl's gotta have a Plan B.
A woman once said "that's why I've perfected my football toss, and learned to bake, operate power tools, and read above a fifth grade level. Cuz nobody in their 60's looks good in thigh high fishnets and black garters."

We need a deeper meaning for our relationships, and deeper reason to relate to one another than just love. Because love is just a word in vacuum unless you fill this vacuum with more loving communications.

Continue to discover your spouse, find ways to know more and more. Ask about his or her childhood, likes, dislikes, interests, any and every thing. If you wondering why aren't you talking to each other enough, maybe because you didn't take a interest knowing what he or she likes. Take an action now and don't wait til there are no more words to say. Reach out to your spouse and create a friendship that will last a life time.