Couples: Repent, Simply Repent!!

Simply repent of not noticing the small things that your spouse does for you and not appreciating them for it.

Simply repent of holding your spouse to a higher standard for men and women you see in movies.

Simply repent for every time you didn't communicated your feeling to your spouse and enabled your relationship to reach a deeper meaning.

Simply repent of holding on forgiving your spouse and love him/her.
Know that love heals much more than any thing else.

Simply repent for not praying for your spouse every single day to allow the Lord to guide and protect them. A woman told me once "In my wedding vows, I committed to pray daily for my husband, and the most effective way he communicates love to me is when he prays for me

Simply repent of thinking only of the negative things about your spouse. Even when it is hard, renew your mind with positive thoughts about him or her.
Many people believe that love start in the heart, but the truth is the Love LIVED in mind.

The bible tells us that we should be "transformed by the renewing of the mind that we may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect." (Romans 12:2)

Wow, renewing our mind is doing God's will, and it is prefect... that is an eye opener...

Simply repent of not meeting your spouse needs and waiting for him or her to meet your needs first. Be willing to to give first.

Simply repent of living a phony way of love and not following what real love is. Love is patient, not self seeking, forgiving. etc

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, ...1 Corinthians 13

Simply repent of comparing your spouse to your friend spouses and wanting them to become the same.

Simply repent for not encouraging your spouse every day and pushing them to look forward every day to look after their family. If you can't find reason to encourge them, make up reasons.

Simply repent for being passive when you action was needed to restore the relationship with you spouse but your pride took control of you.

Simply repent for the things you may have said in anger even before your spouse point them out.

Repentance is a change of direction. Are you willing to turn around and become positive force in your marriage?

Romans 2:5 But because of your stubbornness and unrepentant heart you are storing up wrath for yourself in the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God

Give your spouse all your best with a happy heart. Don't be cheap with him or her. Allow your relationship to grow, don't be a dead branch in the Lord's body. Do his will.